Effort is the most important part in a relationship. A relationship without effort is like a car without gas. Useless and disappointing. The relationship won’t grow if both parties don‘t put time into it. Relationships are a two way commitment. Helping each other out little by little. Bit by bit. Don’t just let your significant other do all the work. Your companion will eventually get tired and weary because it’s clear you don’t give a damn shit. It’s too late to realize when they already left. Don’t make yourself regret and question why you didn’t appreciated their effort. Try to put as much effort as you can to maintain your relationship when you guys are still together.